Nurturing Gratitude
Alison Petersen • November 1, 2025

Nurturing Gratitude: The Montessori Way

At Pincushion Hill Montessori School we recognize that cultivating a spirit of gratitude in young children is not always easy, but it is a profound gift that can shape their outlook on life. How can you nurture this essential virtue in your child at home? By emphasizing independence, practical life skills, mindfulness, and respect for our shared environments, we believe that parents can help their children develop a deep and lasting sense of gratitude. Here are some key ideas that you can try at home:


  • Encourage Independence: Independence is key to a child's development and a cornerstone of the Montessori approach. At home, provide opportunities for your child to make choices and take on age-appropriate responsibilities. By allowing them to do things for themselves, you foster a sense of capability and gratitude for their growing skills.


  • Engage in Practical Life Activities: Montessori classrooms include practical life activities, such as pouring, washing dishes, and folding clothes, which teach children valuable life skills as well as core executive functioning, problem-solving, and motor skills. These activities can easily be incorporated into daily routines at home, helping children appreciate their contribution to the family and the practical aspects of life.


  • Create a Gratitude Journal: Introduce your older child to the practice of keeping a gratitude journal. Each day, encourage them to write or draw something they are thankful for. This activity promotes mindfulness and reflection, helping them recognize the positive aspects of their lives.


  • Explore Nature Together: In our classrooms, we place a particular emphasis on taking responsibility for the beauty and organization of our class environment and finding beauty in nature. Take nature walks, explore local parks, and engage in gardening activities with your child. Encourage them to observe and appreciate the beauty and wonders of the natural world, nurturing a sense of gratitude for the environment.


  • Promote Mindfulness: Teach your child mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing or meditation. These practices can help children become more aware of their feelings and surroundings, allowing them to focus on the present moment and appreciate it fully.


  • Emphasize Grace and Courtesy: In the classrooms at Guidepost Montessori, we teach children grace and courtesy, which includes concepts of politeness, respect, and consideration for others. At home, reinforce these principles by modeling respectful behavior and encouraging your child to express gratitude through kind words and actions. Creating go-to routines provides clarity and empowers children to appreciate others and interact kindly.


  • Offer Choices: Provide your child with choices whenever possible. This not only fosters independence but also allows them to recognize and express their preferences, leading to a greater sense of ownership and gratitude for their decisions.


Cultivating a spirit of gratitude in young children at home is a journey that aligns beautifully with our approach at Pincushion Hill Montessori School. Our commitment to fostering independence, promoting practical life skills, nurturing mindfulness, and respecting our shared environments mirrors the values that underpin the cultivation of gratitude. We believe that by embracing these principles, we not only enrich our children's lives today, but also contribute to the development of empathetic, self-aware, and responsible individuals over time. 


By Alison Petersen December 8, 2025
"The more grateful I am, the more beauty I see."
Children playing outside
By Alison Petersen September 10, 2025
One of the many beautiful and empowering aspects of Montessori education is how it helps children understand themselves as valued members of a community. A key way this happens is through Care of the Environment, a form of Practical Life work that provides children with the opportunity to tend to the spaces they live in each day. By participating in this care, children begin to feel at home in their classroom, school, and community. They feel a sense of ownership and take pride in their surroundings, and in the process, develop a deep sense of responsibility and connection. The Outdoor Environment When considering the children’s environment, we're not just referring to indoor spaces. In Montessori, the outdoor environment is not an afterthought. Instead, we consider the outdoors to be a natural and essential extension of the prepared indoor space. For young children, who are absorbing everything from the world around them, the time spent outdoors supports development in profound and lasting ways. For older children and adolescents, outdoor spaces can be a place for self-regulation and deep focus. Now more than ever, when children tend to spend increasing amounts of time indoors, reconnecting with natural spaces is vital for physical, emotional, and cognitive health. Why Being Outdoors Matters Research, including the work of Richard Louv in The Last Child in the Woods, highlights a growing body of evidence that time spent in nature is critical to the healthy development of both children and adults. In Montessori, we recognize that outdoor time is not a break from learning. Rather, the natural world is a powerful space for movement, language, social development, and sensory integration. Time outdoors is learning time. Young children are in the midst of sensitive periods for order, language, movement, and sensory refinement. These windows of opportunity allow for an intense connection with nature that nourishes the whole child. Plus, the natural world’s beauty, order, and rhythm speak to our deepest human tendencies: to explore, understand, and belong. The Adults’ Role Outside Outdoor spaces become a rich environment for observation, guidance, and connection. Children are often more socially expressive outdoors, making this a critical time for observing group dynamics and supporting social-emotional growth. It’s also a time to model joyful, playful behavior. Children need to see that being human includes lightness and laughter, and outdoor time offers the perfect opportunity for us to play alongside children while still maintaining an appropriate level of guidance. We can also help children understand that different environments call for different behaviors. What is appropriate outdoors differs from what is expected indoors. As children gain different experiences, they come to understand how to conduct themselves with grace and courtesy on a woodland trail and a garden bed, or how to navigate the intricacies of fort building and group game dynamics. Montessori children learn to move through different scenes and scenarios with increasing awareness, sensitivity, and confidence. Setting Up Outdoor Spaces We want our outdoor spaces to feel like a true extension of our classrooms, not a break from them. As such, we are intentional about how the outdoor spaces are developmentally appropriate, deepen children’s understanding of cause and effect, and nurture a sense of order. We want activities in the outdoor space to have a purposeful intent so they support the integration of children’s will, intellect, and coordinated movement. At home, outdoor activities can provide open-ended play opportunities that encourage exploration and independence, as well as ways to involve children in purposeful projects. Here are some ideas to get started! Practical Life Provide tools for cleaning tasks: sweeping paths, washing outdoor furniture, scrubbing flower pots, washing the car, and wiping off outdoor toys. Encourage gardening: planting seeds, watering, weeding, harvesting herbs or vegetables. Offer animal care opportunities: refilling bird feeders, walking the dog, playing fetch. Sensorial Exploration Include sensory gardens with fragrant herbs, soft leaves, and vibrant flowers—like lavender, mint, and lamb’s ear—that invite children to touch, smell, and observe. Create a collection space for sticks, stones, pinecones, shells, and seed pods. Observation and Nature Study Set up bird feeders, weather tools, and insect hotels. Create small areas for quiet observation with a bench, blanket, or hammock. Add sensory elements like wind chimes or water features to create a calming atmosphere. Curricular Connections Math: count petals, measure plant growth, sort leaves by size and shape. Science: Tools like magnifying glasses and microscopes help them explore soil, insects, and plant life up close. Composting systems, rainwater collection, or native plantings foster environmental stewardship. Art: Natural materials become mediums for creativity, such as twigs for weaving, leaves for prints, and landscapes for sketching. Language: Storytelling, reading under a tree, or labeling plants and garden tools strengthens vocabulary and communication while keeping learning grounded in the real world. Observe and Adapt As with all prepared environments, the key is observation. What captures our children’s curiosity? Where are they returning again and again? What challenges are they facing? By observing carefully, we can adjust to our children’s needs and interests. A prepared environment supports the whole child and helps them feel connected, not just to the earth, but to themselves and their community.