The language we use with children is so important. In a Montessori classroom, you will notice the teachers do not overpraise their students. Instead, the teacher will guide the child not to seek external reinforcements. This allows them to build independence and a sense of confidence and self-worth. The way the child is spoken to is carefully phrased.

Try using some of these phrases at home. It might feel awkward, or even silly at first but over time it will become natural. You will notice a change in your child's actions, confidence and self-esteem.

Examples of Montessori Phrases

Instead of jumping in and doing something for the child, instead say "I want you to try, but I am here if you need help."

Instead of saying "Good job!" say "I saw you working hard!"

When a child asks you where something is, pause and ask "Hmm, where could you look for that?"

Instead of saying "Stop running," say "We walk inside our house." Offer an explanation for different situations.

Instead of saying something like "Sit down," say "In our home, we all sit down so that we may enjoy dinner together."

Instead of saying "Stop that," say "Maybe it's time to walk away, you can come back to that when you're ready."

Instead of saying "I am so proud of you," say "You must be so proud of yourself!"

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