Pincushion Hill Montessori School
Montessori Myths Explained
Alison Petersen • May 03, 2024

MYTH: Montessori Schools are all pretty standard

Actually, since the Montessori name is not trademarked, there can be a wide variety of approaches within schools that call themselves Montessori. It is important to look for a school’s level of accreditation. The two primary accrediting bodies in the U.S. are Association Montessori Internationale (AMI), and American Montessori Society (AMS). Accrediting bodies offer varying levels of recognition in their membership for schools based on their adherence to Montessori principles. There are more important differences even between AMI and AMS oriented schools, so we highly recommend touring various Montessori schools to see the differences for yourself and find your own Montessori style.


MYTH: Montessori students do whatever they please

This myth derives from a misunderstanding of the term child-centered learning. It is true that Primary students enjoy freedom in what pieces of work they choose. This enables the child to choose the challenges about which they are most excited by, and to take advantage of “sensitive periods” in their learning, wherein they are driven to master a certain skill by repeating it again and again. The teachers are well trained, though, to spot the differences between a child mastering a skill through repetition and a child that wants to repeat tasks out of boredom or for lack of knowing what to do next. Students do not have the freedom to, say, eat snack all day or do nothing but talk to friends for two hours. Montessori teachers are called “guides” for a reason – they allow students the freedom of choosing their direction while ensuring they still reach the final destination.


MYTH: Montessori students have to be quiet all the time

We have heard other people repeat this myth, but since we’ve never seen an all-quiet Montessori classroom, we’re not sure where this myth comes from! While we do help children understand appropriate volume levels for different conversations and different environments as part of our grace and courtesy lessons, our classrooms are always buzzing with activity and conversation.


MYTH: Montessori is all work and no play

In her years working with children, Maria Montessori noticed that children developed a sense of peace and happiness when they were engaged in purposeful work. Of course, children do enjoy laughing, running, playing, and making friends. Luckily, we arrange our days to allow for all of those activities in addition to work time. The true test is to ask a Montessori child how they feel about school. Our students love to come to school and get to work.


MYTH: Montessori is a style that is only useful for preschool aged children

Our Primary graduates who move to first grade often find that they are well ahead of peers from traditional environments, in academics and maturity. However, Montessori benefits don’t stop at age 6. Our Elementary program fosters academic prowess, love of learning, responsibility, independence, and leadership. Elementary graduates excel at self-management, creative problem solving, critical thinking, and interpersonal communication skills.



MYTH: Montessori kids struggle to adapt to the structure of traditional schools

Entering a traditional schooling environment where students sit still at desks and work on one subject at a time, as a full class, requires a brief transition period for Montessori children. Our alumni families report, however, that the transition is typically brief and is managed with great composure by our students. They have learned self-management skills and personal responsibility, so they are able to adapt well to new circumstances and different learning environments. 

Children playing
By Alison Petersen 17 May, 2024
The Montessori approach, pioneered by Dr. Maria Montessori over 100 years ago, emphasizes not just academic achievement but also the social and emotional growth of the child. Montessori is known for creating independent, self-sufficient and intrinsically motivated children. However, being independent does not mean a child is socially isolated or lacks social opportunities. In the Montessori classroom, you will notice that social development takes place in many forms. Some of these include: Mixed-Age Classrooms One distinctive feature of Montessori classrooms is the presence of mixed-age groups. Children are not confined to interacting solely with peers of the same age, allowing them to develop essential social skills such as cooperation, empathy, and leadership. Older students often serve as role models and mentors, while younger ones benefit from observing and learning from their more experienced peers. Respect for Individual Differences Montessori education recognizes and celebrates the unique qualities of each child. The emphasis on individualized learning allows children to progress at their own pace, fostering a sense of self-worth and acceptance. This approach cultivates an environment where differences are not only tolerated but embraced, promoting a culture of inclusivity and respect. Developing Independence and Responsibility Montessori classrooms are designed to encourage independence and personal responsibility. Children are empowered to make choices about their learning, manage their time, and take care of their environment. These responsibilities contribute to the development of a strong work ethic and a sense of accountability, both of which are crucial in social settings. Nurturing Conflict Resolution Skills In a Montessori setting, conflict is viewed as an opportunity for growth rather than a problem to be avoided. Children are taught and guided in resolving conflicts peacefully, promoting effective communication and negotiation skills. Learning how to express feelings, listen actively, and find mutually beneficial solutions equips Montessori graduates with essential tools for navigating social interactions in the future. Community and Global Awareness Montessori education extends beyond the classroom walls, encouraging children to explore and understand their broader community and the world. Through projects, discussions, and cultural studies, students develop a global perspective and an appreciation for diversity. This awareness fosters a sense of responsibility toward others and a commitment to making positive contributions to society. Cultivating a Love for Learning Together Montessori classrooms promote a love for learning that is collaborative and cooperative. Children engage in group activities, discussions, and projects, fostering a sense of shared enthusiasm for discovery. This collaborative learning environment sets the stage for the development of strong social bonds and a lifelong love for learning in a community setting. The social benefits of Montessori education ripple far beyond the classroom, shaping individuals who are not only academically adept but also compassionate, collaborative, and socially conscious. Interested in observing a Montessori classroom? Schedule a tour today.
Montessori in the kitchen
By Alison Petersen 10 May, 2024
Montessori education is most commonly associated with Montessori schools, but it's not limited to those four walls. Anyone – parents, caregivers, educators – can make a Montessori environment at home. While there's no manual for raising a child, there is one for creating an environment where any child can use their inherent ability to learn through the world around them. For over 100 years, parents have used the Montessori philosophy of education developed by Dr. Maria Montessori to help their children physically, cognitively, emotionally, and socially explore their expanding world. Parents do not need to feel pressured to incorporate Montessori into every aspect of the home. Start with one area, and watch your child become independent and eager to be a contributing member of the family. Over time, add another area and then another. Below are some suggestions in how to incorporate Montessori philosophy and the prepared environment into different areas of your home. The Prepared Environment at Home The prepared environment for the child is not a concept that is exclusive to the classroom. You can take a few small steps to create a well-prepared Montessori environment in your own home that will foster a sense of independence and self-sufficiency within your child. In the Car Make sure you keep the inside of your car tidy and neat. Avoid having trash or leftover food lying around. Allow the child to buckle themselves up if they can. Play child-friendly music or classical music. In the Bedroom Select a bed that the child can easily access and encourage them to make their own bed. Select appropriate toys and place them on shelves that they can reach on their own. Encourage them to keep their room looking neat and beautiful. You can also put their clothing and shoes in a place where they can easily access them so that they can dress themselves. In the Kitchen Invest in some kitchen tools and utensils that are child-sized, so they easily fit in the child’s hands. Consider a kitchen ladder or stool so that the child can help you prepare meals. Use real plates and cups as opposed to cardboard or plastic ones. Have cleaning tools the child can use, so if they spill anything, they can tidy up after themselves. In the Playroom Utilize child-sized furniture. Arrange the room so that any artwork or shelves are at the eye level of the child. Have a table and chairs for them to do work. Try to focus on toys and materials made from wood and natural materials. Establish a rule that the child can use one toy or activity at a time, and then put it away neatly when finished. If you have a lot of toys, a good option is to rotate them, changing it up every now and then so that the child has choice, but isn’t overwhelmed. In the Bathroom Place a stool next to the sink and toilet so that the child can access them without assistance. Walk the child through a good hygiene routine and give them the space to do it on their own. Explain that they should take pride in being clean and neat. Encourage them to keep the bathroom clean. Outdoor Space Aim to have a place for your child to play outside if possible. Set up some child sized furniture or a safe play structure. Explain to them that it is important to be gentle with the nature around them, not to pull on leaves or flowers, instead to observe with their eyes. Gardening is a nice bonus, it’s a great sensorial activity, and the child will be able to observe nature at work and feel pride in keeping their garden beautiful.
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